Here it comes another deeply intellectual post. This one because I saw a video on youtube and now I'm regretting my life choices. But let's start from the beginning.
First of all I want to say that I love boobies. Mine and other people's ones. They are round and soft and occasionally bouncy. I love small boobies and big boobies. I love the fact that every woman has a pair of them and every pair is different and sometimes the smaller ones are the cutest while the bigger ones could be successfully used as a pillow. I don't know if it's a gay thing to say - frankly I don't care much - but I appreciate a nice cleavage as much as the next heterosexual boy over there. I just think that female bodies are fucking majestic and boobies are part of the magic.
And how can we forget about men-boobies? Some men look so touchable. For example, look at these babies and tell me that you don't want to touch them. (And generally I tend to like skinny guys, but don't tell me that you don't want to touch Spike's chest. As for women, chest comes in different shapes and sizes.)
That's basically the core of my boobies appreciation life.
I also have boobies. As your stereotypical Italian southern girl I'm curvy and my breasts are generous. I use to wear a bra when I'm out, mostly because of my education. I don't feel quite presentable in public if I'm not wearing any bra. But when I close the door and I'm at home I lose my bra. It's literally the first thing that I peel off. I don't care if someone comes in my house and find me braless. It's my house and I'm allowed to bounce all over it if I want to.
But then youtube show me this:
(I still don't know why since I don't exactly click "breasts" on youtube. I guess that will eventually lead to porn)
So the recommendation is one: always wear a bra. Even when you're at home, I suppose. Because sometimes I stay at home for days, because I have to study or because I don't have anywhere to go, and I won't wear any bra if I'm going nowhere. My rommates at university used to do the same.
And now the boobies dilemma - it's a very full of doubts period of my life - am I ruining my breasts? Am I not doing something all other women do? Because I've never thought about this. I saw many women around me not wearing bra at home or while going to grocery and I rarely meet someone who use to wear a bra while sleeping - seriously, who does that? - so I grow up thinking that bras are nice accessories but not a "real necessity" of your body.
I've searched for infos and there is this new French study that tells you that bras are just accessories - but it's not really proved and they still need to go on with their research - and there's are other people, even doctors, who tell to always wear a bra otherwise you will damage your cleavage.
I don't want to damage my cleavage, but I don't want to wear a bra 24/7. Yes, you have to buy a comfy bra and it won't feel bad - I used so many wrong bras when I was younger and now I try to be careful when I buy one - but after four hours or five hours of that, the best feeling in the world is to lose the bra and let the girls breathe. And sometimes - I'm feeling guilty just telling it - I dance or do physical stuff without support. Bad me. But am I the only one who feels more comfortable like that or the only grown woman who basically still doesn't understand the bras mystery?
I feel like I'm missing a women golden rule here.
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